this thread just includes my advice & messages <33 this is linked in my bio if u wanna send something as well!!
i’m so much more thankful to you guys ilysm and i’m happy ur here!!!! these messages are so sweet and make my day <33
ur definitely not alone and i think it’s important to remember that when ur feeling alone & down!!there are days where i feel like i’m not gonna get through it and this is just something i’m gonna deal with forever: but it’s not the case i promise!! continue—
pls remember it’s SO important to show urself that u care abt urself: u have to take time and go out of ur way to do things for urself it can be something small or simple. sometimes i’ll take a nice bath and be alone with myself. or watch a comfort anime!! some recs i have:
horimiya, wotakoi, gakuen babysitters, science made me fall in love <33 ALSO yes i completely understand what u mean that u get random moments of feeling fine and then the anxiety takes over again. when that happens there’s honestly nothing u can do but remind urself that u—
WILL get through it. ik it’s something u cant physically see & solve immediately but it will pass i promise bc it always does!!! my dms are open if u need someone to talk to when u feel like this
i recommend tumblr for fluff!!! but remember to read the accounts interaction/rules before u interact/follow to respect their privacy <33
i know exactly how u feel!!! i went through this years ago and ik it’s hard bc it seems almost impossible to get through this. i honestly can’t remember how i got through this other than being tired of how this made me felt and little by little worked up courage—
to become more confident. i rlly faked it until it was true LMAO. as for being alone i know exactly what u mean and it’s something that kept me up at night for months. i honestly just did something until i got too tired and fell asleep. idt this is healthy advice though....—
if ur friends call u clingy they aren’t really ur friends :( ik it’s hard to go through this alone but it’s not helpful when ur friends invalidate u... i’m open to talk to u when ur lonely if u would like!! but i hope u take care and that this was helpful <3333
ofc baby i’m always here for u!! i’m sorry ur feeling like this and trust me i’ve been there & didn’t even understand why i was feeling like this and that’s OKAY it’s ok to cry and feel down. when i feel like this i just wanna sleep and stay in bed but it weighs me down more—
so i’ll force myself to shower and feel more refreshed and do something else that i deem productive!!!
thank u so much it means so much to me that i can help u in some way!! i hope u feel better i’ll always be here!!
YES i came out as bi a few months ago to my bff. tbh for me i don’t rlly think it’s a priority for my parents to know??? my dad is christian and “traditional” as well and i understand why it’s something that worries u!! if ur set on coming out just know no matter what they say—
you’re 100% accepted and loved!! ik it’s disappointing/discouraging for ur parents to disapprove but tbh i don’t think parents should validate ur sexuality!! i hope everything works out babe <333