Why are you so afraid of getting to know yourself ? It& #39;s not going to be as ugly as you imagine it. I feel that you think you& #39;re the worst, you& #39;re not enough, you& #39;d rather push everyone away because you think you& #39;ll hurt them & it& #39;s been weighing -
- on you a lot lately. You have no healthy boundaries because you& #39;re scared to be you & you& #39;re scared you might hurt people in the process but healthy boundaries are meant to protect you you know ? it helps you know who to keep & who to let go of, it helps you get a clear -
- & precise view of your needs & wants and it certainly doesn& #39;t make you a selfish/bad person. You need to first set your own boundaties with your mind meaning that whenever you feel like you& #39;re not enough, you& #39;ve got intrusive thoughts about your appearance or about your -
- emotions, you set your boundary with yourself & you don& #39;t listen to this part of your mind. Fck this voice telling you that you& #39;re the worst, that you can& #39;t be loved, that you& #39;re too much, that you& #39;re ugly etc... F*ck it. It& #39;s time to shut this h*e up. Setting your boundaries -
- based on your needs & wants will help you sooooo much & it& #39;ll free your mind from the prison it created as a protective wall so nobody can hurt you/so you can& #39;t hurt others. Your past doesn& #39;t define you & you have room & time to do better & be better, acting like you& #39;re -
- too cool to meet new people/have friends/be vulnerable is just a protective mechanism & it& #39;s time for you to quit letting it control your life, we all need people that we can trust & love & be loved by, stop pretending like you don& #39;t need anyone, you know you& #39;re doing that -
- because you& #39;re scared to repeat past mistakes but it& #39;s time to move on, it& #39;s time to see the magic & create the magic yourself.
Thank you beautiful people
Love y& #39;all,
Chlo