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huge thread on lesbophobic things i STILL see on twt for some stupid reason...
notes; pls RT for awareness.
lesbians if u have anything to add LMK and i’ll add to the thread !!
TW // lesbophobia , lesbiphobia (whole thread)
lesbians if u have anything to add LMK and i’ll add to the thread !!
TW // lesbophobia , lesbiphobia (whole thread)
1. speaking over lesbians when we talk about lesbophobia
2. intruding our safe spaces.
pls remember there’s lesbian safe spaces and sapphic / wlw safe spaces . if ur not lesbian then keep to ur own
pls remember there’s lesbian safe spaces and sapphic / wlw safe spaces . if ur not lesbian then keep to ur own
3. saying lesbian slurs that you can’t reclaim the l slur (lesbo) and the d slur
4. not listening if we call you out or calling us sensitive when we call out lesbophobia
5. ANY stereotypical jokes like hey mamas lesbians , mean lesbians and all lesbians hate men
6. non lesbians don’t use “lesbophobia” , instead use “lesbiphobia”
7. not including trans , non binary lesbians , non she/her lesbians and neopronoun lesbians
8. similar to the previous one, lesbians who don’t use she/her are still lesbians . pronouns don’t always equal gender
9. bringing up men or any other non lesbian related issue in a post originally about lesbophobia . your issue is definitely important but please make ur own post
10. saying it’s biphobic or homophobic when lesbians express / joke ab hating or not being attracted to men
11. non lesbians making lesbian jokes (hey mamas, x lesbian protector ETC)
also if ur non lesbian don’t laugh / interact with those
also if ur non lesbian don’t laugh / interact with those
12. calling lesbian an umbrella term for wlw. yes lesbians like women but it’s not an umbrella term??
13. excluding lesbians / the lesbian flag from pride
14. headcanoning lesbian characters as non lesbian or shipping them with men
15. calling lesbians biphobic based off of stereotypes or personal experiences
16. headcanoning a character as lesbian based off of stereotypes
17. questioning lesbians for comphet or attraction to fictional men. we can find men hot doesn’t mean we want to date them
18. using comphet when you’re not lesbian
19. bi/pan lesbians
20. when writing a lesbian character, don’t make their whole personality ab being a lesbian and loving tits n stuff or make them predatory around women
21. “if lesbians can control themselves” stop comparing us to predatory men. we aren’t “controlling” ourselves we’re just existing ??
22. the idea that lesbians want to turn straight girls gay
23. treating lesbian like a dirty word
24. calling a non lesbian a lesbian
// mcyt
(for example that weird tommy innit lesbian joke)
// mcyt
(for example that weird tommy innit lesbian joke)
(btw if ur still confused ab anything in this thread don’t rely on lesbians to dumb it down for you, google is right there)
25. acting weird around a lesbian if they come out to you
26. all the girl in red and cottage core stereotypes FUCCKK we don’t even like girl in red ..
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28. the gold star lesbian shit ... it’s so gross
29. to add on to the previous, asking if a lesbian has been with a man before
30. !!!!
31. fetishisation of lesbians and
NSFW //
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lesbian p0r^ category esp if ur a man
NSFW //
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lesbian p0r^ category esp if ur a man
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(this has 32 points and i’m still going :/ )
this is what i mean by making a lesbian characters whole personality tits and women
& the lesbian protector joke where the protector is usually a man . stop acting like we need protecting ESP my men
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34. yori also added calling butch lesbians “fake men”
i’m gonna mute this but lesbians if u have anything to add DM me if u can or tag me in a tweet <3
35. the toothpaste flag.
(if anyone can lmk which flag is the better gay flag to use pls do so i can add it so ppl know the alternative)
(if anyone can lmk which flag is the better gay flag to use pls do so i can add it so ppl know the alternative)
36. the lipstick lesbian flag, it has a problematic creator
btw if u didn’t know ab HIR she treats lesbian as a dirty word and lets her non lesbian friends use the d slur even though it’s not her slur to use in the first place
38. i’ve said it before but wanting to say slurs & lesbophobic jokes as soon as u find out ur lesbian is kinda weird
39. stop using lesbian as an umbrella term for wlw . there are deprecate flags for sapphics and lesbians
40. PLEASE straight men do not flirt with lesbians or say ur gonna turn us straight
BTW i’m okay with questions just pls don’t be ignorant
and i’m okay with QRTS just pls lmk beforehand
and i’m okay with QRTS just pls lmk beforehand
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42. if ur non lesbian and say stuff like “but my friend is lesbian and they said this is okay” one lesbian does not speak on behalf of us all. we will all have different opinions on things
43. adding on ^^ u cant accept apologies or behalf of lesbians or explain what’s okay and not . EVEN if your lesbian friend said it’s okay
44. “who’s the man” / “who’s the top or bottom” type questions ??
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46. non lesbians you know you CAN use lesbian when talking ab a lesbian person / character ?? it’s not a bad word stop making it seem like it is
47. acting like we owe u proof that we r lesbian
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this is the toothpaste flag which is basically a remix of the lesbian flag https://twitter.com/chaevnti/status/1380768743849144321
lesbians promo ur stuff , non lesbians rt and donate (if u can ) https://twitter.com/XlANGLING/status/1380973954903519235
50. (also what the fuck 50) https://twitter.com/ventireai/status/1380975990252449804
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road to 100 
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55. scratches head https://twitter.com/miniamo_/status/1380994023851233284
since ppl r talking about this one a lot i’ll try to explain.
the first one has the L slur and if ur non lesbian just try not to use it.
i didn’t make up any of these words and i found this out bc it’s what i’ve seen other lesbians say. if u don’t think it’s that big of a deal-
the first one has the L slur and if ur non lesbian just try not to use it.
i didn’t make up any of these words and i found this out bc it’s what i’ve seen other lesbians say. if u don’t think it’s that big of a deal-
then that’s fine ig?? but ppl just sounded kinda passive aggressive in the qrt
explaining comphet: it means compulsory attraction to MEN / feeling like u have to be with a man to fit in. it was coined by lesbians
idk the term for this for non lesbians though (i’m not sure if it’s heteronormativity bc i don’t know the accurate definition)
idk the term for this for non lesbians though (i’m not sure if it’s heteronormativity bc i don’t know the accurate definition)
reminding ppl to read point 9 very carefully
