In the interview with Trevor Noah, Chimamanda made it clear that feminists need men to push their agenda. You can imagine how disappointed she was when she saw that Nigerian feminists are wishing men dead and gone.
She must have felt that some were mentally insane and

bereft of the history of feminism, not to know that western feminists achieved a lot through the help of men.

You can’t achieve anything with bully tactics or emotional blackmail. You shouldn’t desire to take away from men, but to accomplish with them.

If your type of feminism involves eliminating men so that you can be at the top, then you need to go back to the drawing board. You are doing it all wrongly and you will continue to meet a push back. It’s a no brainer.