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But I fully believe in having a “list” when you’re looking to date and eventually find a serious relationship.
For a few reasons actually...A thread!
But I fully believe in having a “list” when you’re looking to date and eventually find a serious relationship.
For a few reasons actually...A thread!
For starters this list should be written, not just mental.
Having a list is beneficial because:
1. You can manifest exactly who you’re looking for
2. You will be able to clearly identify when you’ve found the right person
3. You will be able easily see when they’re not...
Having a list is beneficial because:
1. You can manifest exactly who you’re looking for
2. You will be able to clearly identify when you’ve found the right person
3. You will be able easily see when they’re not...
Having a written list can help you “measure” someone you’re considering in an unbiased manner.
When you meet someone you wanna see the good. A list helps you remove the emotion and make a sound decision up front.
Do they meet my standards? Period!
When you meet someone you wanna see the good. A list helps you remove the emotion and make a sound decision up front.
Do they meet my standards? Period!
While I feel you should absolutely be attracted to the person you’re dating...the list should not be filled with superficial traits.
Looks fade/change. Think about who you want the person to BE at their core.
Also. Think about if this is a preference or non negotiable.
Looks fade/change. Think about who you want the person to BE at their core.
Also. Think about if this is a preference or non negotiable.
And for the record...you should meet the qualifications you’re looking for.
If not, challenge yourself to get there. But if you don’t qualify to date yourself...maybe it’s not time for anything serious.
If not, challenge yourself to get there. But if you don’t qualify to date yourself...maybe it’s not time for anything serious.
Anyways.
If you’re looking for something serious...step 1 is to get clear about what you’re looking for.
Then say no to anything that doesn’t align. There may be lonely periods, but it’s worth the clarity.
If you’re looking for something serious...step 1 is to get clear about what you’re looking for.
Then say no to anything that doesn’t align. There may be lonely periods, but it’s worth the clarity.
And. If you meet someone you think might be a good fit then you find out they’re not...
Don’t drag it out just be done. It doesn’t mean you’ll never find the right person. It just means that person isn’t it.
Keep it pushing!
Don’t drag it out just be done. It doesn’t mean you’ll never find the right person. It just means that person isn’t it.
Keep it pushing!
Lastly. The law of attraction is REAL!
What you focus on will grow. Take intentional steps towards embracing the love you want!
You have to create space for what you want. With your thoughts, words, and actions.
What you focus on will grow. Take intentional steps towards embracing the love you want!
You have to create space for what you want. With your thoughts, words, and actions.
For YEARSSSS I struggled in the area of love. I always wanted it but couldn’t seem to get it right.
But Jan 2020 I decided it was my year for love!
I spoke about it (publicly), I ensured my thoughts/emotions were aligned, and I made intentional actions to make space.
But Jan 2020 I decided it was my year for love!
I spoke about it (publicly), I ensured my thoughts/emotions were aligned, and I made intentional actions to make space.
Some things I did you create space for love:
I emptied half my closets and drawers.
I slept on “my side” of the bed.
I kept my bath towels on “my side”
And above all I only dating with long term intentions. No more casual dating.
I emptied half my closets and drawers.
I slept on “my side” of the bed.
I kept my bath towels on “my side”
And above all I only dating with long term intentions. No more casual dating.
I started being intentional about manifesting the love I wanted Jan.
By May, the love of my life (& best friend) came back around. After we hadn’t spoken for almost 3 years.
Here we are a year later. We live together, having a baby (a choice btw), & working towards marriage.
By May, the love of my life (& best friend) came back around. After we hadn’t spoken for almost 3 years.
Here we are a year later. We live together, having a baby (a choice btw), & working towards marriage.
If you’re struggling to find love...I’d recommend evaluating your thoughts, words, & actions.
Are they all aligned towards what you want?
Or are you saying things like “I suck at dating”, “men ain’t shit”, or “I’ll never find the right person” out loud or in your thoughts.
Are they all aligned towards what you want?
Or are you saying things like “I suck at dating”, “men ain’t shit”, or “I’ll never find the right person” out loud or in your thoughts.
We all deserve true genuine love! I hope this thread helps someone get a little closer!
