When kind people delete shitty toxic people from their life story and narrative, it’s because they’re reclaiming their power and stability. When toxic people get upset about no longer receiving attention from their victims, they try to turn the tables and spin the narrative 1/?
Sometimes it’s hard to filter things out and know who is telling the truth or not, but with a little hard work, logical reasoning, and observation, you’ll begin to understand who is who in a situation. It’s not easy, as manipulation and narcissistic traits can be confusing.
With time and experience you’ll learn how best to spot the leeches in your lives sooner rather than later. Sadly, it takes a few tries before you build the necessary skills to spot them. But once you have those tools? It’ll be easier and easier to root them out earlier.
Be patient with yourself while you make mistakes or errors in judgment. You’re not at fault for trusting manipulative people, as they’re masters at getting what they want from generous, empathetic, and gentle folks. But you’ll get better at preventing/thwarting access to you!
And it will be so fucking freeing when you cut them loose, cut them off, and never look back. I wish this peace on everyone who has been manipulated or harmed by toxic peoples energy. You deserve better and it does exist and you will find it. The haters will be dust in the wind.
Stay strong. You’ll get there. You’ll find your people and life will get better and easier. And those angry people will have no one but their echo chamber until they fuck that up to and are left to scream into a void ALONE.
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