Not to center cis feelings but as a girl i feel so much more comfortable in my girl-ness in trans and trans-welcoming spaces than i ever do around transphobes who call themselves feminists. Because their view of womanhood sounds like a cage.

Literally saw a transphobe describe being a woman as "the awful reality of being female" TODAY. Being a woman is just equal to misery for these people. We aren't allowed joy because that would undercut their narrative.

I'm not even talking about sexism because sexism very much exists and it sucks but it seems that in these spaces female misery and suffering is just seen as "natural" and it's so gross.