if you& #39;re an abled person, I would really appreciate it if you could just

stop trying to decide if someone is "really disabled" or "a faker"

it is so harmful. please do not.
@annieelainey has a great video about this https://youtu.be/sIOcKpSVp4k ">https://youtu.be/sIOcKpSVp...
Basically every disabled person I know has been labeled a faker at some point, or been asked intrusive questions about their medical history by a random stranger who thinks maybe we are "faking", or fears this

I have yet to meet anyone who is *actually* "faking" a disability
[ableism]

Thinking also of my HS teacher who didn& #39;t come to any reunions because the Vice Principal was like "oh be careful, people might think you faked your disability to get benefits"

Friends, he was on dialysis
[ableism]

And honestly, abled people just have no idea what a "fake disability" looks like

Like, #AmbulatoryWheelchairUsersExist

Using a wheelchair does not equal never being able to stand ever
[ableism, dietary restrictions]

And don& #39;t even get me started on the people who decide people are "making up" their food allergies or intolerances

Especially the ones who try to secretly feed us something we& #39;re allergic to in order to "prove" that we& #39;re not really allergic
[ableism, death, harassment]

In case you& #39;re wondering what sparked this thread:

Amy Lee Fisher died recently, and the awful people at certain reddit forums are just continuing their awfulness

The reddit forums are all about "spotting fakers" https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙃" title="Auf den Kopf gestelltes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Auf den Kopf gestelltes Gesicht"> https://twitter.com/JessicaXDiamond/status/1380151284959952900?s=19">https://twitter.com/JessicaXD...
PS yes, disabled people can do the whole ableist "try to spot the fake disability" thing, too

But this thread is not focused on that, because I& #39;d really like to stay focused on A Thing Abled People Can Do for Allyship

And not intra-community politics
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