Message for certain Aquarius: you may be sabotaging a connection to see if they still put in effort towards you. You’re so guarded that whether you realize it or not, you’re making things difficult for this person to see if it’s worth letting your guard down and letting them in.
This person may have contributed to why you’re making it so hard for them. Maybe they do certain things that make you wonder if you should let them in or fall back. And if they still continue to talk to you after many probably would have stopped, it gives you a sense of trust.
Regardless of how hard you’re making it, this person still seems to be determined and has a sense of devotion towards you they can’t fully explain. But don’t take advantage of it. When you expect them to give up, they find a way to pull thru and prove you wrong. Give a lil leeway
This seems like one of those things that’s most likely going to find a way to work. Even when the circumstances (or ahem, ur rigid efforts) make it seem impossible. U both share something within (a trait) that others do not have, which is why neither of you are giving up entirely
I mean honestly all it rly comes down to is open communication which neither of you seem to be engaging in. All it takes is a talk to have a breakthrough. But until then, you’ll keep being stubborn & guarded. I do believe you’ll get tired of it though & will start to let them in
One of you needs to take the reigns here, rip off the bandaid and just say something to shake up this stagnant status quo you have going on. Whether you put it on the spot, call them out or they call you out, just let it happen. Stop pussyfooting and get down to business aquarius
Stop playing this two step game of taking one step forward and one step back. This ain’t a dance aquarius. Not only are you making them confused you’re making your damn self confused too. Now you’re wondering are they playing games or am I? What the hell are we doing? Lol smh