me: has one video get popular on tiktok
half of the comments: "but how are you a lesbian if you're nonbinary" "get it girl" "queen"
im so tired

im so tired... "im confused" then do your own research because ive already explained this so many times

the video they're responding to isn't even about my identity either im literally just vibing

stop trying to tell nonbinary people what their own experience is challenge

i hate cis people do much (also does this count as tone policing)

cis people stop playing the victim when a trans person is uncomfortable with you constantly telling them they dont exist even after they explained to you challenge