Lets share some stories today... bad experiences.. I once had a slave that promised me the world. I become not only his mistress but his best friend and confidant. I even had him stay at my home and meet people in my life. One day he had a hissy fit and ghosted.....
He blocked me on everything. We had a solid D/s relationship for months and months. After that happened I was never the same as a mistress. I wasn& #39;t as kind, I took less shit.. it was an important learning curve for me.
I think people forget mistresses have feelings too. I went from 24/7 to nothing. I had no idea what was happening. It was the not knowing that bothered me most. Still this to today I have no clue but like I said it changed me. I would jump into ownership so quickly ever again.