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I don't think men understand how humiliating it is when they don't spoil us. Our friends are being sent e-wallets and taken on vacations and all you have to provide are cheap "I love yous" while you spend your money on women you really want. It cuts deep. (A thread)
Ukbekezelela umuntu ongaksizi ngalutho empilwen makes you feel and look stupid. You see women who are not as loyal, as supportive, as loving as you get the world dropped at their feet and you getting the bare minimum. It's demotivating
You see women bragging about their boyfriend's and yours can't even dlula at pik n pay to buy you a box of chocolate and flowers. If you are in this situation, leave sis. There's no honour in being with a man who doesn't value you.
And don't sleep with him!!! You will regret yho. I don't care what these guys say out of fear that their girlfriends will leave them Because they don't value them on my TL. It's not them that's talking, it's fear that we women will seep through their bullshit and leave
You are worth so much more than empty promises, being cheated on and not having money being spent on you. You deserve to be spoilt, other women are being spoilt EVERYDAY, why are you getting the bare minimum? Challenge these men to take you seriously or leave. You are worth it
Pick me's should be getting paid from their job of licking these men's asses. You look stupid defending a man that doesn't value you. Even other men can co-sign but deep down they know the truth. You are being taken advantage of!
And you're allowing it cause you're desperate for their approval. Love yourself tuh
