As of today it is official and it is public. Chloe recently came out to me and today came out to everyone. She wants to live a life that is authentic to who she is. I fully support her and love her. She will always be my best friend and mother to my two beautiful boys.

But we have come to the conclusion that in order for her to live her most authentic life as a lesbian woman, we will eventually get a divorce. We don’t know when or how that will work. Right now we are focused on our two beautiful boys and working to coparent them

We have been through ALOT together. Got married really young, moved cross country, left the church at the same time, had two kids together, experienced a miscarriage together, and now this. I don’t do well with change but I love Chloe enough to let her go live her life

It’s been a rollercoaster ride of emotions. I stand with her 109% but that doesn’t change that this is sad and a little scary all a the same time. Please feel free to ask me any questions about it and I’d be happy to answer the best that I can

And if I’m being honest I could really use some love and support

It’s also really hard to do this when I live on the opposite side of the country from my family and support base. I am beyond grateful for all the messages and my online family though