I need to make an actual kink educator account because stuff I see on here is genuinely so alarming and unsafe.

Listen to me, folks. You can absolutely be into the BDSM scene and never touch pain/impact play. There are so many other options

You should always feel safe in play.

Some other bits:

-your first interactions are often exploring what you’re interested in without necessarily labeling your role

-lots of planning and discussion takes place pre-play in safe and sane scenarios

-responsible Dommes will learn your boundaries + hard limits first

Here’s an example of something I walk through with *everyone* I even consider getting down with (whether it’s prof or just personal)

Every Domme should do this with you, y’all. This is really important. Please be kind to yourself and careful getting into the scene<3