I think a lot of bi women don't get is that for a lesbian being left for a man is degrading. When it happened to me it was actually the most damaging, hurtful, painful thing I've ever experienced. Hearing someone talk shit on men for 5 years then her leaving for one is betrayal.

I get shared experiences are important to a lot of lesbian too but from personal experience this is my take. I know it's harsh but I'm not risking that again because it took YEARS to trust again.

Glad people are liking this, we should make an 'i was dumped for a man' support group