Ahead of #InternationalWomensDay, a thread for women who are fed up of arguing, and men who are feeling defensive:
Women pointing out the discrimination they experience isn’t ‘man-hating.’ I’m 50 years old this year and I’ve met a lot of feminists. I can count on the fingers of one hand the number who hated men. I lost count long ago of the number who are afraid of them. >
The most immediate reason for this is that women live with the threat of violence against them daily. From humiliating catcalling to harassment to abuse, violence and death, the spectrum is long and wide. Look up @countdeadwomen >
Women generally don’t lie about this. The CPS says false allegations are “serious but rare” and estimates there is one prosecution for a false rape claim out of every 161 rape cases prosecuted. False allegations make up 0.62 pct of all rape cases. >
https://www.channel4.com/news/factcheck/factcheck-men-are-more-likely-to-be-raped-than-be-falsely-accused-of-rape
Violence against women is cause and consequence of women’s inequality. Men have more power than women. This is a global fact. Some places are worse than others. You can campaign for women's rights anywhere and everywhere. Suggesting otherwise is whataboutery. >
Women who earn less don’t need to be told to try harder. They are trying really hard already. Studies show that women do ask for pay rises and promotions – they just don’t get them because of sexism. > https://hbr.org/2018/06/research-women-ask-for-raises-as-often-as-men-but-are-less-likely-to-get-them
Women are often fired and forced out of work for getting pregnant and having children. Men tend to get more money when they become fathers. This is called the motherhood penalty/the fatherhood bonus. > https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-36126584
Half of women have experienced sexual harassment at work. Imagine trying to ask for pay, promotion and parental leave from a boss who says he’ll only consider it if you have sex with him. > https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/aug/10/half-of-women-uk-have-been-sexually-harassed-at-work-tuc-study-everyday-sexism
We haven’t even got started on FGM, forced marriage, sex trafficking, so-called ‘honour killing’, or the repeated and continuous global assault on women’s reproductive rights and their ability to control their own bodies. > https://www.hrw.org/topic/womens-rights#
Nor have we yet discussed how women from different races and ethnic minorities live with racism as well as sexism. This is just one example > https://www.forbes.com/sites/janicegassam/2020/09/22/misogynoir-the-unique-discrimination-that-black-women-face/?sh=351bc66356ef
Or the ways in which disabled women face ablism as well as sexism every day. > https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/en/our-work/blogs/%E2%80%98double-whammy%E2%80%99-being-disabled-woman-uk
Or the fact that all of the above make it hard for women to run for political office and write better policies that respond to a different lived experience. > https://www.unwomen.org/en/what-we-do/leadership-and-political-participation/facts-and-figures
The good news for men is that you can help. But if you’re a good man - show don’t tell. Forgive us if we are impatient with a #notallmen lecture. Because … >
You can also: campaign for equal pay in your workplace. Campaign for shared parental leave (and take it yourself.) Leave at 3pm to pick your kids up. Request flexible leave; make it a day one right if you’re the boss. Hire women. Promote women. Make space for women. >
Or donate to your local women’s refuge.>
Consider the disaster that Covid has wrought for women’s liberty and equality and the impact on societal cohesion, economic growth and environmental sustainability if 100 pct of the population was seen, heard and had a chance to contribute ideas and talent. >
Consider this is the tiniest, tiniest snapshot of what’s out there and happening. Do your own research. Read books by brilliant women and connect to female community activists doing the work where policies have failed to see them. >
Campaign for men’s issues – help smash harmful toxic masculinity and gender stereotypes. Women will support you, particularly if you do it every day and in every way, not just on March 8 on social media and in response to women’s posts. >
Finally: International Men’s Day is on November 19th. If you were just waiting for this bit, please go to the top of this thread and read it again. Thank you. #internationalwomensday2021 #IWD2021 #IWD
ps this year's #IWD hashtag #ChooseToChallenge says it all. Choice depends on context. To be able to stand up to sexism, misogyny, racism, ablism and more is a privilege restricted to those men (and women )who need not fear they will lose their job/income/security if they do.
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