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I was 22 and in college.

I hated my job, was overworked, exhausted, unhappy, and felt stuck.

I wanted to get married and have a family, and was discouraged from dating by my community.
I was also part of a church that was full of older people and provided no opportunities for growth.

I was constantly pouring myself out for others without a thought for myself or my health.

2017, all that changed.
I was tired of being exhausted, sick, and angry. Tired of feeling stuck. Tired of giving freely and being unappreciated.

I realized my social circle was doing me more harm than good, so I left that toxic church environment and never looked back.
I found a church that wanted to help me grow. The contrast was night and day for me. I surrounded myself with people who wanted the best for me and wanted to see me succeed.

I began searching for opportunities that would grow me emotionally and spiritually.
I changed my clothing style. Switched out frumpy outfits for clothing that complemented my body type.

I changed my hairstyle.

My confidence grew.

For the first time in years, I felt happy, content, and comfortable in my skin.
The inward change affected me outwardly.

I felt ready to begin looking for dating opportunities.

Previously, I would self-sabotage in the form of emotional immaturity.
I didn’t believe that I had value and thought that no one could possibly want me.
That’s when I met Cameron.

We were both on the path to self-improvement, and we instantly clicked.

After a month of dating, we got engaged.

How did we know so soon?
We were both open to opportunities, sought out growth, and embraced commitment.

We communicated openly and honestly about our thoughts, feelings, opinions.

We were committed to making the relationship work, so we did.
My story isn’t luck. It isn’t chance.

It’s simple, really.

I looked at the areas in my life that weren’t working for me, and I changed them.

I changed my inner dialogue.

I opened myself up to growth.

I adapted to what worked.

And you can too.
You aren’t broken. You aren’t hopeless. You just need to find out what’s not working for you.

I can help you, because I’ve been there.

I can guide you, teach you, encourage you.

YOU make it happen.

My schedule is filling up fast, so DM me to get your spot.
You can follow @igniteyourpath.
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