Still on the subject of cheating.. may I just add that I do not believe at all that people who choose to cheat are at all remorseful about it. There is a moment before the cheating occurs, when there has been a quick SWOT analysis and the decision has already been made.
For most Nigerian men, 90% of them expect some heat from their wives, some begging etc but they fully expect her to stay. So much so that they get impatient and even irritated when its dragging on for too long. I’ve done and said all the things, whats all this one now?
A fully married fellow who carried on a flagrant affair which ended in tears for him as his wife packed her things said “all my friends do it and get away with it. This is why you shouldn’t marry rich girls”. They fully expect to get away with it and be “sober & sorry” after.
I don’t think anyone who cheats cares at the point when they are cheating. Theres a myriad of reasons they care about being caught including their image, perhaps not wanting a divorce, children wahala, etc, but they could care less that they cheated on you and will do it again.
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