Erm my experience;
Perasaan before kawen & after kawen punye PJJ tu berbeza.

Before kawen rasa xde hal la PJJ.

Lepas kawen mula rasa terbeban. Mental saya tak kuat senang cte. Sebulan 6 hari je jumpa out of 30/31days.

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Emotionally mentally kene fikir jugak camne nak handle.

Communicate lah via phone ke pe i still rasa sunyi. Trust? We both trust each other. No worries.

Tambah pulak nak anak during PJJ, if u think u can manage to handle ur kids alone,then Alhamdulillah. I tak rasa i sekuat tu.

Since the mother berkerja, u rasa boleh manage bangun 5 pagi siapkan anak nak hantar daycare pastu malam2 tiba2 anak nangis ke, sakit demam ke, u rasa u boleh tackle sorg? Physically kuat, mentally emotionally u boleh cope?

I tak rasa i boleh mcm tu. im so sorry.

Since i am no longer working, takde rezeki mana2, i follow husband i.

Kalau diberi pilihan from the beginning, i tanak PJJ just for the sake of career. No. I choose my husband over my career. I sayang perkahwinan i.

Paling down bila line connection very poor. Omg rasa nak campak phone seriously. Mmg xde mood langsung lepas tu.

Again, like i said, this is me. Semua orang boleh handle the pressure differently.

Good for u guys yg kuat go through PJJ marriage. I hope korang boleh stay together ASAP.

I mampu for like 1 year plus je. Enough is enough for me. I need my husband.

Semoga we both kuat go through alam perkahwinan together, love and sentiasa ada ehsan to each other till jannah.

Also, semoga we both dapat cahaya mata juga. Getting older now. Hahaha cepat2 lah ada rezeki anak https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙈" title="Nichts sehen-Affe" aria-label="Emoji: Nichts sehen-Affe">

& for those yg cari jodoh, semoga dikurniakan jodoh yg terbaik for u guys https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="❤️" title="Rotes Herz" aria-label="Emoji: Rotes Herz">