Romance in Islam; a thread
RasulAllah ﷺ said: “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives.” (Ibn Majah)
1 Lifting the morsel to her mouth,
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "You will be rewarded for whatever you spend for Allah's sake even if it were a morsel which you put in your wife's mouth."
|Sahih al-Bukhari 56|
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "You will be rewarded for whatever you spend for Allah's sake even if it were a morsel which you put in your wife's mouth."
|Sahih al-Bukhari 56|
2 having fun and spending time with each other,
It was narrated that 'Aishah said:
"The Prophet (ﷺ) raced with me and I beat him."
|Sahih Ibn Majah 135|
It was narrated that 'Aishah said:
"The Prophet (ﷺ) raced with me and I beat him."
|Sahih Ibn Majah 135|
3 Laying in each other’s lap,
The Prophet (ﷺ) would recline in the lap of our beloved mother Sayyidah Aisha (RA) even in the state when she would be menstruating. The Prophet (ﷺ) would recite the Qur῾ān whilst reclining in his wifes lap.
|Sahih Al-Bukhari|
The Prophet (ﷺ) would recline in the lap of our beloved mother Sayyidah Aisha (RA) even in the state when she would be menstruating. The Prophet (ﷺ) would recite the Qur῾ān whilst reclining in his wifes lap.
|Sahih Al-Bukhari|
4 Kissing,
The Prophet (ﷺ) would kiss his wife regularly. Even when he (ﷺ) would be fasting.
It’s sunnah to kiss your wife before going to the masjid:
narrated that ‘A’ishah [RA] said that the Prophet ﷺ always kissed one of his wives then went out to pray,”
|Abu Dawood|
The Prophet (ﷺ) would kiss his wife regularly. Even when he (ﷺ) would be fasting.
It’s sunnah to kiss your wife before going to the masjid:
narrated that ‘A’ishah [RA] said that the Prophet ﷺ always kissed one of his wives then went out to pray,”
|Abu Dawood|
5 Combing the spouses hair,
Aisha (RA) would comb the hair of the Prophet (ﷺ) and wash his hair.
|Bukhrai, Tirmidhi|
Aisha (RA) would comb the hair of the Prophet (ﷺ) and wash his hair.
|Bukhrai, Tirmidhi|
6 Calling her by a beautiful name,
The Prophet ﷺ would call his wife Humairā out of love. It means little reddish one, it refers to someone who is so fair that due to the sun they get a reddish tan
|Sahaih Al-Bukhari|
The Prophet ﷺ would call his wife Humairā out of love. It means little reddish one, it refers to someone who is so fair that due to the sun they get a reddish tan
|Sahaih Al-Bukhari|
7 Eating from the same spot,
Narration by Aisha “RasulAllah ﷺ used to put his mouth on the place where I had drunk from, & he would drink from what was leftover by me, even if I was menstruating.”
He,ﷺ would also eat after her, & from the same place she had eaten from
Narration by Aisha “RasulAllah ﷺ used to put his mouth on the place where I had drunk from, & he would drink from what was leftover by me, even if I was menstruating.”
He,ﷺ would also eat after her, & from the same place she had eaten from
8) Assisting her in the housework,
The Prophet (ﷺ) would clean and help at home. He would see to his needs himself rather than demanding his wife. He would clean and see to his clothing himself.
even Without being asked
The Prophet (ﷺ) would clean and help at home. He would see to his needs himself rather than demanding his wife. He would clean and see to his clothing himself.
even Without being asked
9 Respecting your spouse and her loved ones,
One day, the Prophet’s companion, Amr ibn Al-As, said: “I came to the Prophet and said
Which people do you love most?”
He replied, “Aisha.”
I said: “From amongst the men?”
He replied, “Her father, (Abu Bakr).”
(Bukhari)
One day, the Prophet’s companion, Amr ibn Al-As, said: “I came to the Prophet and said
Which people do you love most?”
He replied, “Aisha.”
I said: “From amongst the men?”
He replied, “Her father, (Abu Bakr).”
(Bukhari)
may Allah (swt) grant us all righteous spouses who will be coolness of our eyes and will wait for us at the gates of Jannah, aameen
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