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Sagi's Way of How To Be Nice-Nasty: A Thread
I'm making this thread because a lot of people , as I said yesterday, are not good at trying to do it on Twitter and in real life. I'm going to point out how to be nice-nasty but also to know when you got under someone's skin. This needs to be said because-
The efforts people make to seem unbothered are getting really old. If you have been in enough debates, arguments, and tiffs, it's the same shit- especially with women trying to be luxe LMAO.
What is my experience? I've been bullied by linebacker built women and men for one, I've also been to a PWI, and I've also been the youngest at work and people were trying to boss me around when I had the most experience.
My responses have led to people wanting to punch me, jump me, demoted, and even fired! Being nice-nasty has allowed me to never feel regret after a dispute or to feel triggered in any way. To know I have the upper hand in verbal disagreements is freeing- so let me get into it.
What is nice-nasty? It's when you respond to a negative situation or comment with a combination of nice and nasty. You have to do both components, especially in a work environment, because if you don't it can turn on you to make you look like the aggressor.
TIP #1: Do not yell! Being emotional is only going to make it worse, and when it turns on you, you are going to be pissed. One thing I never did was yell during these altercations. It's really funny having people's veins pop out and your voice is still leveled LMAO
TIP #2: No direct insults. Sound concerned! Example : "Sagi you don't deserve your position as __!". Well Becky while you are an exceptional worker, if you spent more time working with me or less time sleeping in the break room, maybe you would get promoted too.
Sorry I couldn't make it longer because... twitter characters. Did you see how I complimented her and then shaded her while giving tips to work around me so she can get my spot? Things like that- don't sound snarky or add anything extra just be normal lol.
TIP #3: Don't hit below the belt and discuss deceased family, call them out of their name, bring in personal issues. They can do that all they want but be the bigger person. Stick to the topic that's at hand. Assertion without Aggression!
TIP #4: Be sarcastic. I'm not saying like "sweetie" and "dear". It is so boring and overdone. Real life example : "Sagi, being a graphic designer isn't a useful job." I understand your ignorance, but selling charcoal toothpaste from your dorm doesn't scream useful either. 
When I tell you this boy was LIVID I shaded his homemade dollar-value charcoal toothpaste! He avoided me in the computer labs and our job. He ended up getting fired because he was trying to sell said toothpaste on the work computer.
TIP #5: Smile! Smiling when you're upset or sad is scientifically proven to change your mood. Even if you are irritated, smiling will make you gradually feel better. It works for me at least.
TIP #6: Not always needed but nice nasty is pretty much the step before gaslighting. If there were no witnesses and they try to report you to, let's say HR, you better victimize yourself and act clueless chile. Embrace your inner white woman!
