I spent 11 years trying to figure out if I was trans. I went back and forth. I truly didnât know. But, I owed it to myself to figure it out for myself. In the end I realized Iâm most comfortable with the labels non-binary woman. Queer. Gender fluid. Genderqueer. You donât have to
get it. You donât have to understand my process. You donât have to agree. You donât have to like it. You donât have to like me. I feel & acknowledge both sides of myself. Itâs not a either or situation for me. Itâs an all encompassing 1. They arenât at war anymore. They just are.
Itâs society that tried (and still tries) to make me choose. But, no. I shanât. Bc I am a beautifully imperfect mixture. And Iâm good with that.
My body isnât just a land mine for those who love me .. it can be a land mine for me, too. Everyday is different. And sometimes minute to minute. Itâs a process. And anyone else who identifies with this post .. youâve my solidarity. Keep on keepin on. Be You.