One day when it safe, we need to talk about sumn Llemar said, about aggression being desired in men.

Caz as one of the many who join in the chorus of wanting to be choked or a sprinkle of bad up here and there, we must ask the question - “who teaches men where the line is?”

And that’s not to absolve them of anything. That’s not to justify abuse. But there’s an expectation that men know where the line is and if is a man a teach a next man where the line is... then here we are.

In other words, where do we learn the rules of engagement? In schools? Where them fraid to talk about sex and sexuality?
At home? In communities? Where they teach men that certain girls ask for it? Where they teach men to persist until she relents?

And if we can accept that men don’t know how to fuck properly Caz all them friends and dancehall tell them is fi stab and damage it, then I think the same applies.

Where are men learning the behaviors? Other men I guess but some men know and others don’t so what is different?

Intimacy is such a subjective encounter but there are objective wrongs involved, but men no seem to operate in that basis.

They don’t listen to women, so how do we get the convo going?

Just a percolate.