Everytime I hear a man complain about disliking a woman being she’s a “man hater”, 10/10 times it’s followed up with them saying “she says hateful things about men and it’s hurtful “.
The system is designed in a way that anytime a man has to attack another man, he’ll abuse female
Relatives.
Whenever I’ve spoken out against this, I’ve been told to develop a thicker skin and not take things so personally.
Everytime college professors make some “comment” about how girls shouldn’t be getting further education anyway since they get married, I’m told I take
Things too seriously. As if there are absolutely no real implications of these jokes and so many women aren’t forced to give up careers after marriage and their only tactic to delay marriage and have a shot at being some sort of autonomy is pursuing education and then men want to
Take THAT away from us too?
Everyday I get men hear talk about how women are bad drivers, not as smart, not as capable and not as worthy and them. And these comments aren’t made in a vacuum.
The follow up to these baseless assumptions is restrictions placed on women’s mobility
This constant perpetuation of the notion that women aren’t as intelligent or hard working or ambitious as men is blatantly visible n the employment sector where women will have to work ten times as hard to prove she deserves to be there and to earn a fair (let alone EQUAL) wage
You make us uncomfortable to exist in public spaces, our offices, our schools, our HOUSES and don’t spare a second to remind us of your hatred for us.
Men acting upset when a woman says she hates men is comical and so hypocritical to me.
Because when we say we hate men, it is the inevitable cry of frustration towards a system that is designed to keep us restrained in every segment of society.
It is an announcement of how completely distraught we are over the constant marginalisation we experience.
When you say you hate us?
It’s not mere verbalisation of contempt for our kind. And more often than not, it’s not just a verbal claim.
Men don’t have to say “women are trash” (though many do so,too) to prove they do.
Every time one fails to respect a woman’s autonomy of her body
, her clothing, her mobility,her capability, her aspirations, her CHOICES- you’re doing exactly what it takes to uphold the system designed to hold us back always. And when you never bat an eyelash to any of the obstacles we experience just by virtue of being a woman, but instead
Add to it, how do you have the audacity to get upset when a woman has a very valid reaction to her oppression?
How do you dance on the ashes of someone’s hopes and ambitions (which you aided in the destruction of) and then have it in you to be enraged when they curse you for it?
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