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Last quarter of 2015 , I was still running with my 2 high school girls. Friend 001 was newly married and was hoping we get to experience what she was. She decides to hook friend 002 with her hubby& #39;s best friend. But she didn& #39;t want it to be too obvious so she https://twitter.com/SueNyathi/status/1331075203703640071">https://twitter.com/SueNyathi...
Creates a WA group with me , 002 , hubby & besty ka hubby. We start vibing and besty kahubby shows interest in me instead of 002. So 002 didn& #39;t know the plan so there was no harm done. He comes to my DM and its 24/7 vibes until he says "I& #39;m at the border, chat in a few"
Mina "Border? Where to?" , he says work . I drive to and from bulawayo/ SA weekly. Mina 
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😳" title="Errötetes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Errötetes Gesicht"> "Why?" ( yeah I was slow). He says I& #39;m a malaitsha https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😬" title="Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht">. I look at him and his vibes I& #39;m like....how? https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤦🏾♀️" title="Frau schlägt sich die Hand vors Gesicht (durchschnittlich dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Frau schlägt sich die Hand vors Gesicht (durchschnittlich dunkler Hautton)">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">. Anyway, he charms me for a few weeks and I was now dreaming about
Getting cartons of food and how my family won& #39;t suffer sending things now from SA. He comes back first week and we go on a date epark. Probably my first date https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤦🏾♀️" title="Frau schlägt sich die Hand vors Gesicht (durchschnittlich dunkler Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Frau schlägt sich die Hand vors Gesicht (durchschnittlich dunkler Hautton)">. He got food and we took a walk . He was very sweet and gentle. Held my hands , carried my bag , opened doors
It was magical! He was also a church boy so that was nice. I accepted his proposal and that& #39;s when everything went downhill. Friend 001 starts giving me "tips" on how to make him happy. These included praying for him , submitting, being slutty , yet churchy
Ask for money etc etc etc. Hah! Since she was in a successful relationship, I yielded. Even though it wasn& #39;t me. Malaitsha wami laye was being given tips on his side. Give me money, marry me fast etc. So , I have always hated cooking and I& #39;m not a meddler but
I was being turned into that. He would compare me to friend 001 . What she was like as a girlfriend, what she is like as a wife. I was even planning "my" wedding around their church. And when I tried to question it ....they made me start visit their church more often
I knew I was lost when I meddled in my 19 year old brothers relationship because friend 001 had seen the gf at their church manifesting a demon or something. I was here talking to their pastors and what not because I didn& #39;t want my 19 year old brother seeing this child
I never want to be that person again. So one day dude says I want to meet your aunt. My aunts are way older than my dad and dead scary. But he pressured me so much I went to tell her. Remember this relationship is about 3 months old. I lie to my aunt and say I have known him
For yearshttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😬" title="Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">. I consult with an older Mai mfundisi at church but she says no Sofia start with someone like a sister. I have no sister so I pick my maternal aunt . She& #39;s young. We go there and my & uncle meet him. He charms them. I lie to my older aunt about it.
His granny in the UK now calls me , his mom is SA is my besty ....malaitsha and I are happy guys. December comes. His mom calls to say she wants to meet me. Something about the mom didn& #39;t feel right though, she always wanted me to be her son& #39;s saviour.
I was always being reminded I& #39;ll be his chance at stability or something. December is busy for malaitsha so I see him less. The chatting gets less , he is always complaining about his job. Wants to move to SA. Hates his life etc etc. I was still desperate for marriage
Back then so I& #39;d pray and fast for him. He asks me to come and meet his mom. I go all the way to cowdry park...ehawkflight lapha and call. I& #39;m here , he used to come get me ebusstop phela. He says just go home I& #39;m on an errand. I& #39;m like https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😬" title="Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Grimasse schneidendes Gesicht">ok. I get there and
Introduce myself to his mom https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">....little did I know a sekuru was there too. I introduce myself to him toohttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">. The plan was I& #39;m going back home but he is a no show until 5pm and that& #39;s late for cowdry park to my house. Friend 001 and her meddling ways calls me.
I tell her where I am and she& #39;s like we will pass by . Suddenly the church youth start showing up. There was a sleepover guys and I didn& #39;t know. They all know me by now do its just vibes. 001 shows up and I ask her to leave me at home. I call boyfriend and he says
They are delivering stuff in kezi. https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😳" title="Errötetes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Errötetes Gesicht"> and he had planned I sleep there. Planned? Lobani? I leave and don& #39;t tell 001 what& #39;s up. She & hubby call him and because they are the owners of the relationship tell him his things. Yeyi bhudi was given an earful! I gain confidence
And start ignoring his calls. He calls and calls and I& #39;m just there quiet , while the owners of the relationship are fighting my cause. When I got home he sent messages saying he was sorry and yes I forgave him https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">. He went back for a trip and that was the last time
I saw him. He quit his job and looked for a barrister one like he always wanted. 2 weeks later he just dumped me in the middle of the night. 001 and hubby had moved to SA too. 001 tries to convince me to follow but I wasn& #39;t interested. That& #39;s when I got dumped
I later learnt he had gone back to his baby mommahttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤡" title="Clownsgesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Clownsgesicht">....friend 001 didn& #39;t tell me, I had to find out on fb. Dating a malaitsha didn& #39;t have many advantages for me. He used to buy me airtime whether he is here or joburg. He always gave me 100r when he came which
Was every Tuesday. Other than that , there was no food in cartons or free trips or cheap gifts from Pep. The whole relationship felt like it was happening to someone else while I watched. The grandmother commented last year on one of my videos saying my accent was bad
That was weird.
