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So fire signs are constantly guarding their autonomy. This can come across as them being defensive or doing “too much” to make sure their voice is heard and their stance is understood. This comes from always seeing power plays and dynamics in their childhood.
Fire signs honestly grow up in chaotic households. Their parents were always in power struggles with each other or they would come home and talk about the power struggles they were experiencing at work or in their social circles.
This created the impression to fire signs that they have to FIGHT for their right to make their own decisions and have their own opinion because someone is going to try and minimize their voice if they don’t.
This usually comes across as aggressive or passive aggressive in situations where this isn’t happening. Fire signs brace for an attack whenever they decide to be open about an opinion or vocalize a choice they’re thinking about making. They expect for someone to tear it down.
Aries-
Aries grows up with a mother who’s gotten the short end of the stick somehow when it comes to their child’s father. This usually is the case for someone who got with an incredibly selfish partner who never changes their selfish ways.
Aries grows up with a mother who’s gotten the short end of the stick somehow when it comes to their child’s father. This usually is the case for someone who got with an incredibly selfish partner who never changes their selfish ways.
Aries tend to grow up with a father who’s not always present physically (due to work or other issues/responsibilities) so their father is more like this presence in the family opposed to a warm, close bonded relationship during their childhood.
Seeing the clear disadvantage their mother has in comparison to their father (whether it’s emotionally, physically or financially) it creates a black and white view of the world when it comes to people and their positions in a relationship.
Aries honestly feels like relationships aren’t fair and they will ultimately hurt them or they will hurt others. This creates a deep defense mechanism that keeps people “out”. This defense causes Aries to have a flight or flight response to any vulnerable emotion including love.
Aries puts up a wall that is kept up by never really being fully emotionally honest or present to keep people at an arms distance. This causes their partners to never really understand why Aries isn’t happy and it creates repeating arguments in the relationship.
Aries tends to view their mother as someone who is emotionally childish, out of control of their own life and their romantic partners are their downfall.
This causes them to always have their guard up with romantic partners, because they don’t want to be taken as “stupid” for compromising or fully trusting their partner.
This makes Aries women to want to take on a more masculine role in their relationships and partnerships because they don’t want to be seen as incapable (the way they view their mother). So Aries women chooses people who can have a weaker personality or more passive disposition.
This causes Aries men to feel guilty towards their mothers but also disrespectful towards their mother subconsciously because they feel like it’s their mothers “fault” for choosing a bad partner, subconsciously.
The issues with their mom spills over into how they regard women emotionally. It’s a struggle for Aries to fully trust or be open towards women. Aries may also have less patience for women...especially peers.
This also creates extra stress for Aries men to be a good “man” but this tends to make them dodge the responsibility of fully committing to family life because they’re scared of fucking it up.
So Aries may take the provider role to the extreme and stifle their emotional availability because they’re afraid of being viewed as a bad or incapable person. This also ensures that they won’t fall into the “weak” role in the relationship dynamic.
Aries has to realize that by trying to run away from being like their parents they recreate the dynamics in their love life. Aries tries to maintain a certain level of control over what happens to them which only creates an internal jail where they are their worst judge.
Leo-
Leo grows up with at least one domineering/controlling parent who also wears the “pants” in their marriage or relationships. Little Leo see’s this and adopts a “don’t question me” attitude that shows up the most in their personal relationships through being overbearing
Leo grows up with at least one domineering/controlling parent who also wears the “pants” in their marriage or relationships. Little Leo see’s this and adopts a “don’t question me” attitude that shows up the most in their personal relationships through being overbearing
Leo ends up resenting the domineering parent and works to be nothing like them. This can cause them to not always speak up for themselves when necessary because they suppress their aggression.
This can cause Leo’s to become emotional doormats that do whatever is necessary to “save” their relationships. Leo can suppress suppress suppress all in the name of love.
This causes Leo to bottle up anger, frustration and any other negative feelings that collect over time. This causes them to have poor reactions and blow ups. And makes them look like the bad guy that they don’t want to be.
The power struggle happens internally for Leo, because they have a hard time gauging what’s too much and what’s not enough. This causes Leo to end up in a cycle of tumultuous relationships that end in blow ups and fall outs.
Leo has to separate the image of their domineering parent from their aggression/self assertion in order to understand the difference between expressing negative emotions healthily and abusively expressing negative emotions.
Leo has to understand that they are not a bad guy because they stand up for themselves. But they *can* become the bad guy when they are feeling guilty & defensive, which can cause them to overdo their self expression which comes across as bullying
Leo spends their life fighting against the parent they resent so much emotionally. They carry that resentment into every relationship and it builds a wall between them and whoever is trying to get close to them.
Leo HAS to learn to allow that pain to stay in the past because it’s their blocking their authenticity in relationships and creating a barrier that’s keeping from being fully understood.
Sagittarius-
Sagittarius grew up in an environment where they saw people getting treated REALLY unfairly at times. Even if it was them. Sagittarius sees some seedy characters while growing up.
Sagittarius grew up in an environment where they saw people getting treated REALLY unfairly at times. Even if it was them. Sagittarius sees some seedy characters while growing up.
Some of the prominent adults around Sagittarius had low morals so they honestly have seen the worst in humanity in one way or another. Especially terrible men or men with weak qualities.
Seeing the level of injustices that go on in the world and even down to the shit going on in their own family reallyyyy has made Sagittarius guarded and makes them second guess their own goodness at times.
Sagittarius is also often targeted as a child and bullied, picked on or singled out by a parent/step parent. The sad thing for little sag is that nobody ever really steps up and saves them from the harassment or puts the parent in check to the point of forcing accountability.
Sagittarius would also receive punishments that were over the top. Whether it was extreme/excessive beatings or berating, it was too much. Oftentimes their mother wouldn’t step in to protect their child from the abuse they were experiencing.
This has created a very deep distrust in authority figures and creates resentment towards “weak” qualities. For Sagittarius women, it can make them very disconnected from their softer emotions and vulnerable side. It also makes Sag very defensive and suspicious towards authority
The fact that no one ever stepped in to save little sag has made it hard for Sagittarius to take full accountability for their actions. Growing up, they were taught through shitty behavior that if u can make an argument for your actions, you can justify them.
This creates wreckless/excessive behavior but it also causes them to OVER DO discipline which puts them in a cycle of going hard and achieving then fucking it up by abandoning what they were doing bc it was too much stress on them to maintain that level of self imposed strictness
This causes it to be hard for Sagittarius to be an authority for themselves when they get older. They have a shadow of unjust punishment that lingers in their subconscious which makes them feel very uncomfortable when they have to make serious decisions regarding their life.
These issues make it difficult for Sagittarius to feel powerful in their own right. Authority figures hold power. Authority figures have reallyyyy let them down.
Sagittarius has to take in that they will NOT automatically become a “bad person” if they’re given the same amount of authority that they’ve seen someone abuse. It’s safe and okay to grow up and start a family. It’s ok to mess up. It’s ok that you don’t have it all together.
Sagittarius has a deep fear of failure that comes from a deep fear of punishment. The past is no longer with you and you’re safe to learn and make mistakes without someone coming along to make you feel like shit about it.
Whew. Ok so all y’all need different audios to help heal these things.
Leo- imposter syndrome will help you guys remove the suppression created from having a tyrannical/domineering parent https://mystichealingaudio.com/item/transcending-imposter-syndrome-guided-visualization
Aries- Shadow side audio will help you embrace the aspects of yourself you’ve disconnected from due to the uneven dynamics in your childhood https://mystichealingaudio.com/item/integrating-your-shadow-guided-visualization
Sagittarius- Coping with tragedy audio will help you heal and recover from the excessive damage done by the harassment/negative things you’ve witnessed and experienced as a child https://mystichealingaudio.com/item/coping-with-tragedy-healing-audio
Love y’all, it all gets better with time 
