Read on Twitter
HOW TO EAT SOMEONE OUT: a thread pt. 1
***note: in this thread, i’m discussing the oral stimulation of a vulva. but i do want to note sapphic sex is not limited to vulvas, people with vulvas are not the only ones who are sapphic.***
part one: GIVING
eating someone out can be scary especially if it’s your first time. so let’s get down to the basic DOs and DON’Ts
eating someone out can be scary especially if it’s your first time. so let’s get down to the basic DOs and DON’Ts
idk who told y’all this but DON’T try and do the ABC’s. it does NOT work. what happens is you’re doing different motions one after the other without much centrality. on the receiving end, it doesn’t feel good so PLEASE just skip it
DO use motions that would do with your fingers. if your partner likes circles on the clitoris, do circles on the clitoris with your tongue. if they like a back and forth motion on the clitoris, do back and forth.
DO go inside if you want and if your partner is okay with it. the finger motions idea applies here. if they like fingers pressing against the roof of their vagina, try the same with your tongue
DON’T just stick your tongue out and shake your head back and forth. unless your partner specifically asks for it, the likelihood of it feeling good is so low. it also looks weird from the receiving end
DO incorporate other parts of your body. if you’re stimulating the clitoris, use your fingers inside as well. it’s kinda hard to keep the rhythm. not gonna lie, it took me a while to perfect it but when you DO the results are PROMISING
DO stimulate other areas aside from the vulva. kiss the thighs, kiss the stomach, have your hands on their chest, stimulate the nipples, hold the thighs while you eat them out. make it a full-body experience.
DO make eye contact. listen, when it’s done well it’s so fucking hot and VERY intimate. it doesn’t have to be constant, but do it every once and a while especially in between moves
wild cards: these depend on the partner so TALK TO THEM about their boundaries
•nibbling - some people enjoy light nibbles on the clitoris/thighs
•nose stimulation - some people enjoy nose to clitoris stimulation
•spitting - some people enjoy spit on the vulva
•nibbling - some people enjoy light nibbles on the clitoris/thighs
•nose stimulation - some people enjoy nose to clitoris stimulation
•spitting - some people enjoy spit on the vulva
general tip: if they’re having a good time and responding well, that doesn’t mean it’s time to switch up what you’re doing. unless they ask for something to be faster/harder, it’s usually a good idea to stay consistent
DON’T just stick to sucking the clitoris. you are not a vaccum. just consistently sucking the whole time, unless your partner indicates otherwise, isn’t always pleasurable. it can also be too much pressure.
DO use sucking intermittently and use your tongue to stimulate the clitoris while sucking. use the same motions i mentioned above. this also prevents the tongue just out and wagging around look
DO use different positions. it’s a cliche, but 69 while getting eaten out is one of earth’s many pleasures. getting eaten out from the back is so nice. sitting on someone’s face VERY nice.
lastly, as always talk to and listen to your partner. often they’ll signal either verbally or through body language what works and what doesn’t. it’s always hot to check in on how they’re feeling during sex.
in part 2, i’m going to discuss RECEIVING and tips on how to prepare and be comfortable with being eaten out since there’s just as much anxiety on that end, too 
lmk if you have any questions! and have fun eating someone out!
