I think masculine people treat women that have support, family, ans financial security different. Especially if the woman is privileged....

I say this as a masculine person with majority of masculine friends. I'll even go as far to say other men also treat privileged gay men differently too from what I've seen in dating experiences of my gay guy friends.

I notice the performance of trying to buy the privileged persons attention, love, and etc. I learned about this in college dating a woman my first few years from a well off family.

I don't come from a privileged background at all. I came from the streets. I was at college on financial aids and grants for coming from poverty. But I still found a way to show up. It was probably small and childish but she enjoyed it. I think we assume wealthy people

Want wealthy things and that's not "always" the case. I dont know, but I notice the hidden or invisible context on dating wealthy or privileged people alot. I even notice the random comments which usually are jokes, but I wondered about the experience on their side

I think it boils down to dealing with whatever inadequacies you feel and also letting them show up for you the ways they know how if it aligns with your love language. I know I purposely will not accept anything from women that have more than me because I never want

It thrown in my face. Or I am paranoid about her feeling like I am using her. I am probably surrounded by women who can literally help me get out if my immediate debt and I rather do the shit myself. So technically I do treat them differently too. I don't talk to them

About my problems because you know how women will go do something you didn't ask them to do because they want to see you happy? Yeah no. I don't want that. So essentially I end up closing off parts of myself. So I am just as gulity as anyone else who treats them differently

Anyway, that's just my experience. Tell me about yours if you would like!