Thread by @sneedbomber, Quarter of my life just passed by me this weekend, feel like [...]

Quarter of my life just passed by me this weekend, feel like sharing advices/things I've learned. Take with a grain of salt
Let's begin:

Learn how to filter out people. Never have a huge emotional yelling match, just silently demote and move on. Life isn't some TV drama, for a lot of people its just unresolved anxieties.

The concept of being unable to learn new things after 25+ is unironically true. You will never bet at an artisan level like
someone who honed a skill throughout their youth. The most important part is building the habits that allow you to learn new things.

If you spent your early 20s online pressing f5- you have to turn yourself into a productive person or it's simply over. Light a fire under your ass.

Boomer lies: Your work and "Career" will give you fulfillment in life. This is wrong. Work sucks, you do it so you can get
the funds to do the things you enjoy. A lot of people are programmed to be worker drones.

You have until the age of 25 to get in good shape/lean. You need to build the habits early& young, otherwise you will morph into the gym phantom mid 30s guy wearing athletic shorts w a beer gut doing 5x20 leg extensions for 4 years wandering from one machine to the next.

Alcohol has ruined more people than I can count. It makes you ugly, fat, droopy and low test. Beer especially. Your liver is important. Take care of it and don't stress it. All the women that hit the booze hard aged like sunbleached dogturd & men get estrogenic beerfat by 22.

The idea that you make your "best friends" when you were young isn't true. If anything it's easier to make new friends the older you get.

If you meet people in highschool your relationship will stay at a highschool level.

The healthiest thing you can say to yourself is "it just is what it is". It's good for you.

If a woman asks for you to "Open up more" stay exactly where you are. When you are talking about your "feelings" with a woman never leave it open ended. She will perceive it as feminine and complaining. Never complain.

"Yeah I felt x so I did y and then z happened - whatever."

If you have an unpopular opinion and get rebuked by a large amount of people but 1 girl reaches out to you and agrees with you privately put babies inside of her immediately. Huge interest indicator.

Video games hijack dopamine from realworld
achievement. Never be the person that takes time off work for vidya.

All the kids who joked around about being gay actually turned out to be gay. Turns out referring to yourself as "Faggot" or "retard" doesn't work out in the long run.

The people who went furthest in life were ugly dudes who were funny that got along with everybody.

If you're white never listen to black people's dating advice.

The "College party frat life" is complete bullshit. The early 2000s american pie sex party lifestyle does not exist. Frats pass around the same 5-6 women and suburbanite white boys who listen to rap paying for friends.

The concept of "no sex on the 3rd date - im out of there" is beyond stupid. Women taking their time to know you is normal outside of the American hookup culture. If she does waste your time act indifferent and move on.

Tradeskills don't "Destroy your body" its just that the guys on the lower payscale working them are felons with no upward job mobility blow paychecks on hookers/drugs and get stuck in this samsara of going from 1 job to the next.

The kid who had a truck and went to the oilfields for a year (Bakken oil) built and sold a house at 22 years old.

You will notice a repeating theme in life of the people who took risks and did things are the most successful.

Have children early& often. Boomers lied once again. Kid I knew got a girl pregnant at 21, both sides of the boomer family pitched in to help raise the child. This is good, this is what is supposed to happen - that money would have been wasted on boomer gimmicks.

This is long winded at this point but a lot of men truly do not "fill out" until their mid to late 20s. I thought it was cope until it happened to me.

Women are starved for men that actually look/behave like men. 30 yr old guy I worked construction w set up a tinder and got matched with incredibly hot 21yr olds. Being manly hits different parts of women's brains instead of some male model twink.

Any girl that's really into choking, slapping, spitting is mentally ill. P*rn sex is not real sex and women will cringe at you trying to act overly aggressive.

High partner count, fried receptors from antidepressants and early onset vagital dryness from the pill. 9/10 times.

I don't have anything else to add besides repeating a lot of other people's advice.

Good fortune going forward in life. Play to win.

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