Personally I don't think humans are meant to be monogamous. We didn't evolve that way. Sure, emotional monogamy is a thing, but sexual?

I think adult relationships should accept human realities and not base themselves on something as banal as sex.*

*Respect + use protection.

At this stage in life, I can't imagine breaking off a relationship with someone whose presence makes my life better simply because ó lo je búrédì pèlú okùnrin ìmíì.

Honestly, it's just sex. When you have enough of it, you see how banal and unimportant it really is.

Based on my own experience of the feeling of being "cheated on" years ago, I think that entire concept is founded on insecurity. Insecurity is what creates a need for sexual exclusivity.

It means nothing to me now. Honestly, it's just chemical-induced activity, like eating.