V glad I was freed from the shackles of length retention and curl definition and started experimenting more with my natural hair
Definitely been getting a lot more comfortable lately with wearing my natural hair down/out
I used to feel so much pressure to always have my hair âdoneâ but then I realized I was listening people who have looser curl textures or literally donât own combs and âmoisturizeâ their hair with oils so
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Once I stopped focusing on length and started paying more attention to moisture and damage control, I felt a lot more confident ab my hair. When I really started to understand her likes/dislikes then my outlook really turned around. Haircare became fun instead of tedious
This is all very ironic because my mom is a cosmetologist and has been since before I was born
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="đ" title="SchĂ€del" aria-label="Emoji: SchĂ€del"> get at @SharayStylz for the hair tips, she literally always knows what to do
Donât get me wrong, people have always liked and complimented me on my natural hair, but itâs only ever been in the context of it being longer than other womxnâs hair or based on the fact that most of the womxn in that area STAYED in protective styles.
I internalized a lot of anti bw and general antiblack rhetoric (even though I knew better than to spew it myself) and I HATED my hair for a very long time but Iâm here to say yâall gotta let that shit go lmao
Why are we still shaming black women for their hair?? Itâs redundant. Say something nice or move along, ESPECIALLY my fellow black women.
Literally why do yâall care so much if bw wear wigs and who cares what tf they have under it
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Black women, you deadass do not have to prove yourself to
A N Y B O D Y, stop with the âwho baldheadedâ clapbacks and just reply w more pics of you being a baddie w HD lace lmao
Black women, you deadass do not have to prove yourself to
A N Y B O D Y, stop with the âwho baldheadedâ clapbacks and just reply w more pics of you being a baddie w HD lace lmao
My nails look so long in that second pic omg
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="đ" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht"> that raggedy nail polish<<<