"everyone should have their pronouns in their email signature!!" my pronouns inherently out me, i have two public-facing jobs dealing with a lot of conservative men, and outside of that i email people almost exclusively to organise trademe purchases/etc
obviously i& #39;m pretending to be a cis woman for sw purposes. but i& #39;m also, specifically, /pretending to be a cis woman who doesn& #39;t put she/her in her signature/. at my customer service job i need to stay as anonymous as humanly possible to avoid harassment, too
tbh this also applies irl for many of us. when playing magic in public, for example, i don& #39;t actually want anyone to correct my opponent on my pronouns. i am there to play a game, and every trans person& #39;s mileage varies. correcting them means they& #39;re gonna resent /me/ not you
also: telling people they HAVE to put their pronouns in their bios or whatever means assuming that someone isn& #39;t a) questioning b) closeted already. maybe they& #39;re like me and don& #39;t mind a particular assumption, but don& #39;t want to explicitly approve it or be out in that context
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