I’m living out my switch fantasies tomorrow and I’m spanking a 31-year-old.
Tips for being a good spanker/disciplinarian/dominant?

This isn’t his first spanking but he’s new to the scene and exploring his fetish. His pain threshold is low and he wants me to build it up.

Any advice, tricks or tips that work are appreciated.
Right now I’m going to go based off of what works for me as the spankee and alter it to what his reactions are. But the more data I get (others points of view) the better I can make this something he wants to repeat!

Maybe this account can become more switch and less spankee!