I'm having a moment of self evaluation; during the introvert's dream (quarantine), I've noticed myself being more and more relieved at the notion of not going out to find a mate. The idea of romance and relationships has become antithetical to me, and I'm realizing that

throughout my adult life, I've pursued sex over connections, in regards to men. So what I'm trying to figure out is, am I: more misanthropic than I thought, gayer than I thought, or more aromantic than I thought? Some combination of the above? Tryin to work it out

(note: I am not in crisis, my attitude towards my sexuality is and always has been to pursue what interests me and not really sweat the label. Just realizing my interests are a lil different than I initially thought.)