An update on the girl: the stayed at mine Saturday night and I prepared the most immense vegan KFC feast, drank with and finished our Hill House binge (she literally SCREAMED at the bit Nel shows up in the car and I got worried incase my neighbours thought I was doin a murder)
I did fancy breakfast in the morning and then we got coffee and went for a walk over a beautiful country park - and we even met some horses!!
I had to nip home and short out my animals, but when I got back to hers she was making a really tasty dinner and had run me a bath and lit candles and everything