Stop making stupid and silly decisions in the first 2 to 5 months of your relationships

The honey moon period is the period of the relationship whereby everything seems warm and nice. What you feel during this period IS STRONGER THAN LOVE. it is concentrated lust. New relationship energy(NRE). Unfortunately, it doesn't last.

During the honeymoon period, the sex is awesome. Y'all are talking and texting everyday. Maybe even seeing each other everyday. Y'all never argue and every moment is bliss.

The thing about the honey moon period is it does not last. The light that burns twice as bright, burns half as long. The New relationship energy will run out. You will still like the person, but now their flaws seem clearer.

The dangers of this period of time are clear

Men make the SILLIEST decisions (women also make the silliest decisions too)

1. Getting her pregnant
2. Marrying her legally
3. Using his school fees to buy her phone
4. Meeting her fucking family members too early

poor decisions

The worst being MOVING IN TOGETHER too early

Gauge all these high-school, university and life relationships... assuming they last past these highly charged few months

They are STRESSFUL AS FUCK

The issue with people is they mistake this period for love.

I've heard enough of it... People barely 2 weeks to a few months into the relationship

Calling themselves the foundation of their pillars

Planning marriages and how many children they will have

Silly

They've not even experienced a quarter of the relationship

Let me tell you what love is...

Love is a deep emotion that takes a long time to cultivate and grow.

Yes

No love at first sight bullshit you horny fuck

Because it takes many months and sometimes years, it lasts a VERY LONG TIME... DECADES

the kind of love your grandparents had

Not all this 'I love you, i love you' in the first week nonsense of nowadays

What you feel during the honey moon period: New relationship energy, is surface

You can feel it immediately you start having sex with a new girl and she can feel it too

Or when y'all are fresh into the relationship

NRE typically lasts 2 to 5 months, but it can extend to a year or 2 if y'all don't see each other enough.

Always remind yourself in the beginning that what you feel is temporary

Therefore no silly decisions are to be made

For success, you must wait until the energy has died down to a natural level

Then you can start making more serious plans and arrangements

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