Why larries are not fetishizing mlm

A thread~
Before u attack me asking if I'm mlm, my pronouns are in my bio. This is all based on what actual mlm have said and if u open a dictionary you would know.
First of all here are all the defenitions of fetishizing I could find (if there's more pls inform me)
1. We don't make something the object of a sexual fetish.

The only thing yall think we do is write smut or talk about them having sex which isn't true, there's no deny that ppl do write smut about them and do talk about their sex lives but same thing with harry and other women
Yall write hendall smut and constantly talk about them having sex, ffs I've seen too many ppl say they want a sex tape.

Why is that not fetishizing?

And don't say that they did date tho, because there was no confirmation from either of them

And that's still not an excuse
Till this day yall still make haylor edits and say they write songs about each other when it's been 8 years...

If your gonna call out larries then call out the rest as well
Saying that Louis eats eleanor out every day or that she sucks his cock is okay but when larries say the same thing it's suddenly a crime??

And even if they are confirmed to be dating, the whole point is not to talk about their sex lives but yall still do
2. We don't have a commitment nor are we obsessed with larry

Yall make it seem like Larry is a commitment and u have to dedicate hours of ur day to it or sum..

It's not.
Simply being interested in something dosent mean ur obsessed with it

Being a Larrie dosent mean ur automatically obsessed with it and dedicate ur whole day to it

We just talk about it, not 24/7
3. We don't spend too much time thinking or obsessing over it

Talking about it sometimes dosent mean we think about it too much

We actually do have a life, we spend a fine amount of time thinking or talking about it

It's not like we give up sleep and school to be a larrie
4. We don't get sexual pleasure from talking about it

It dosent benefit us sexually at all

Trust me it dosent turn us on
5. Larry isn't based of homophobic stereotypes

Istg alot of yall think that we call Louis gay because he has limb wrists

Him using polari (if you don't know what that is pls educate urself about it before talking) and us speculating he's gay because of that isn't stereotyping
And don't just quote this calling me disrespectful, weird or delusional, those insults got old already.

If ur gonna quote this atleast try explaining why it is actually fetishizing, don't just say it is and go but explain why it is
All of the things that were said above were all Google researches and what actual mlm have said.

I've talked and asked multiple of my irl who are mlm and that's what they said.

They aren't larries nor are they antis, infact they don't even Stan neither of them.
Also:
how can we festishize mlm when we don't even gain any sort of sexual pleasure from imagining or picturing then doing something sexual? We literally just believe they are together?
For the pronouns being in my bio thing, I didn't mean to invalidate anyone or say that she/her can't be mlm, I should have made it more clear so I'm very sorry if u were invalidated or hurt by it, it wasn't my intention and I should have worded it better
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