No. This is encouraging people to reach out to at worst active abusers and in a best case scenario, people who passively wish them harm. The onus is always on the oppressor, never the oppressed. https://twitter.com/ianbremmer/status/1325135387707269121

I also want to make it clear, that if your Trumper friends or family members *do* reach out to you, you owe them no dialogue until (and if!) you are ready. YOU get to dictate readiness, not them.

This is true in any situation of an “amends.” If someone has harmed you and seeks to make amends truly, that won’t change if you ask them to wait a while. It’s a very good litmus test to see if it is actually about your feelings or theirs.