Honestly? Many cishet women do this. A few reasons:
• grew up learning that sex was not for their enjoyment
• learned that sex was primarily about conception
• learned to prioritize male ego over their satisfaction
• want to avoid potential wrath from a bruised male ego https://twitter.com/phllyjwn/status/1325294347760373760

And for many married women, getting it over with as quickly as possible is less work than the alternative.

I think it’s very easy to blame women for choosing to engage again, and while I do think saying no is the best way to avoid terrible sex, these things do not exist in a vacuum.

Women (in general) simply have not been raised to prioritize their own sexual pleasure. Many can’t even make themselves orgasm because they were taught masturbation is immoral.

When everything says men are the “sexual ones,” of course women will defer to their male partners to make sex enjoyable, and when it’s not, they simply overlook it or choose to believe that pleasure isn’t important to them.

So, I try not to shame or make fun of women (it’s usually cishet women) who find themselves with lovers who don’t care about their pleasure because there’s often a lot of internalized misogyny standing in their path to leaving that shit behind.

I highly encourage more (cishet especially) women to engage in self-discovery. You need to learn you so that you can better explain what you expect/desire from your partner(s).

Source to the above image https://twitter.com/naturalhairrule/status/1325439425925492742