You being annoyed when people ask for help is a REFLECTION of the LACK of help you have received throughout your life.

You have been forced to be independent, responsible & take matters into your OWN hands. Other people have not.

You often get frustrated with people who forget things, or do not think about the possibilities of negative outcomes. You often get frustrated with people who do not take full responsibility. You often get frustrated with people who completely rely on others.

Perhaps what you truly desire is the ability to rely on others.

Perhaps what you truly desire is someone to ease the burden of taking full responsibility.

Perhaps what you truly desire is the occasional release of your independence.

Perhaps your frustration with others is actually a reflection of your own desires.