not once in my entire adult life have i seen this asked the other direction https://twitter.com/ianbremmer/status/1325135387707269121

somehow, regardless of who wins, it is always the Democrats' turn to be conciliatory and apologize for existing and soften our own stances and meet everyone halfway, while regardless of who wins, the Republicans keep on insisting we deserve less than full humanity under the law

if homophobes want to mend their broken friendships with me, they know where to find me!

also you can love someone and wish them well without letting them get close enough to hurt you again, which is where a lot of us are with the Trump supporters that used to be in our lives

i'm not cruel, i don't wish anyone suffering or pain, but i don't want them to be in power

"I'm not going to let you keep hurting people" is, in fact, also a gesture of love and kindness