You& #39;re not demonstrating any moral sophistication by suggesting that people reach out to downcast Trump voters in friendship. Their politics are explicitly about exacting revenge and making their enemies suffer. Don& #39;t be stupid, they hate you and don& #39;t want your friendship.
And him being gone isn& #39;t going to make them stop being obstacles to anything good. They are going to continue to try to make the lives of the poor and the marginalized worse. You being nice to them today isn& #39;t going to change their minds.