The RELATIONSHIP thingy. We all want to be in a relationship. Be loved, cared for, appreciated. You know, all and all. Everyone wants that, I mean, we’re humans, designed to be in constant need of long lasting euphoria chills . 1/16

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We even feel intimidated when we see other people enjoying relationships and do the “God when ” thingy every time. I do it too . But then, whenever we decide to try we often hit a block and it gets us confused and we often ask “Why?!”
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Well, I don’t have solutions if that’s what you looking for. I just have logical interpretations . You see, relationships happens whenever it happens. The forced ones are like eggs, they definitely come crashing down. It’s the norms

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We shouldn’t deviate. I’m not here to teach you how to love or something, I mean, what’re you? 12 years old or something?? plus we’ve got YouTube now. So back to the real talk— Why do we often have ill-lucks with relationships?

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I mean, I know we’ve tried. You’ve prolly given it couple shots and decided not to try again. I know. I’ve been there. Still there though but heyy ... Most times humans are weird. Most times it’s often from how they were raised. Do you get??

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You simply cannot reciprocate love shown to you if you were not shown genuine love and care while growing up. Weird isn’t it? Imagine tadpoles, without there natural habitat, when they finally grow up as frogs , they definitely would be clueless on how to jump.

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That’s why most times, we end up with toxic people, failed marriages, boxers in form of lovers, etc. you know the drill .

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Sometimes, it’s maturity. Lack of understanding of what we really do want. We often think, relationship is the solution and we drive at it and eventually get into it. I mean, big shout out to peer pressure, etc .

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Sometimes we mistake pure vibes and energy as “feelings”. Prolly cos we’re stark lonely in dire need of attention . Lonely lots . But guys frfr... you shouldn’t be intimidated by relationships or be sad on why yours hasn’t worked out.

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Sometimes it’s because of financial issues. Yes. Financial issues. Dead that thought of “You don’t need money when it comes to love. “ what year are you in? The 90s? C’mon. Tbh, as much as I hate to admit it, financial status is a player.

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To both gender status really. At least, it’s the reason I’m single. Yk... I feel I’ve not gotten my money right yet cos I be feeling the urge to spoil my girl often. So you meet a girl you in love with...

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she loves you real much. You feel the need to get her whatever she wants even though she asked for nothing. You can’t because you’re broke. You know she loves you to death but you simply can’t fit her needs. She finds someone that can love and fit her needs.

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Why? Because she’s broke too. What happens? Y’all split up and find someone else cos you both were financially not stable. You need to be financially stable to enjoy a relationship. BOTH GENDERS. Easy to grasp.

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Lastly... is relationship what you truly want? Are you financially secure? Career secured? Mentally secure? Guys being single doesn’t mean you’re literally lonely. It’s just you wanting couple priorities to set in before you find someone you want to have a commitment with.

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Out of context— stop trying to make yourself uncomfortable to impress people. It sucks and drains you. Completely.

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I and @greythestark pondered and created this thread. He’s smart. Follow him .

I hope this thread helps. Thank you

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