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thread of things to watch out for when coming into contact with ANYONE, sexually
tw: sexual and health triggers
tw: sexual and health triggers
first of all: i see a lot of you guys talking about cnc and thats all good and fun but the CONSENT part is KEY. safe words and having a conversation about boundaries is ALWAYS necessary. do not overlook this.
if you have a size kink/are much bigger than your partner/are well endowed: make sure you get comfortable with safe words and even the size difference. as a vagina owner that also has an IUD and problems with my ovaries I can confirm: you can hurt me. be careful.
what I mean by this: no not kinky fun "hurt me". like ACTUAL hurt me where I could have discomfort and pain for days following and no its not fun and its not hot. i could end up in the hospital. with a bill, and potential long lasting effects.
Getting tested as frequently as possible (especially for those of us who are extremely "sexually successful" ;) can prevent the spread of disease and help us mitigate a lot of problems! using protection is always great of course but getting tested is also very important.
subs, this ones for you. you need to get your doms consent. you need to give your dom a safe space to tell you if they feel uncomfortable. sex a very intimate thing and you both need to be communicative!
IF YOU PUT IT IN HER ASS AND THEN ELSEWHERE YOU CAN GET HER SICK!! said this below but seriously guys fecal matter isnt harmless in fact it can cause a lot of problems. clean ur toys/use new condoms/clean ur dick when going in between. same sex couples need to be aware as well.
having a breeding kink is all fun and games until someone gets preggo! please be smart. kinks are meant to enrich our sexual lives not be a health hazard. with vagina owners& #39; sexual freedoms potentially being revoked, this is extra important.
and my own tweet made me realize !! blood kinks need to be taken seriously. having your blood near someone/vice versa is a big risk. understand that and be responsible. get tested for blood illnesses and be safe!
LASTLY! or for now: don& #39;t get all your info from this thread or even twitter. do your own research and learn how to be safe!!! i know theres things I left out in this thread so please pleas please if you are sexually active or planning to be, be smart!
also: if youve gotten this far pls share!!! sexual health is super super important and needs to be talked about more!!! if you can talk about ur kinks, make one of them being healthy 
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ALSO!!! if you are drinking, please don& #39;t have sex. people who are intoxicated cannot consent to sex!!!
you should always be in a good headspace when having sexual encounters. it keeps all parties safe.
you should always be in a good headspace when having sexual encounters. it keeps all parties safe.
