My theory on Aquarius in relationships: A thread

The reason why I feel Aquarius are the way they are is because they show two different personalities in relationships. In the beginning they’re usually very detached, but once they’re invested they want to include their

partners into all their plans which causes panic within their partners because they never experienced that side of them before. I genuinely think they’re great partners but because they show different personalities it’s hard for them to find people that will stay.

They go after those that show no interest because they think that’s a match to their personality when in reality once they value a relationship they want reciprocity. So when their partner doesn’t show the interest they had in mind they feel like a failure causing them to

shut out future partners especially those that chase, because they equate what happened in their previous relationship as them being unloveable.