Guys, someone sent this to me & he needs your honest opinions.

"For context, I am a 26 year old engineer and the first child of my parents. My dad passed away two years ago in an accident, on his way to my graduation from Kogi State University...

..luckily for me I got a job in Lagos where my family live. I am happy I don't have to pay rent but now I think I’m better off staying in another city entirely.
It all started with my mom forcing me to give my church 40% of my first salary...

..she said paying a certain percentage from my salary as tithe was compulsory.
My siblings on the other hand are driving me nuts. Since my dad died I’ve been giving them pocket money out of my salary because my mum decided that she was only going to pay for their tuition,..

...even though she owns a shop and works in the Ministry of Women Affairs. My siblings have turned me to their bank. I am the worst elder brother on earth because of all the financial boundaries I have tried to create. My younger brother takes care of his women at my own expense.

My sister on the other hand, is a comfortable slay queen without a job. I can’t cut them off because of the fear of what they will do to maintain this lifestyle. I honestly just want to enjoy the little money I make, save enough to invest in myself and find ways to make more..

..and don’t get me started on the extra responsibilities my dad left behind. My cousins, people from the village and a long list of other people. These people got my number from God knows where and have decided to call me at the end of every month.

I can never say no to these people because they keep ending the call with “Eno nothing is too small. Your father was the only person I had.” sigh.

I spoke to my mum about everything and omo, let’s just say I shouldn’t have. She went off on me. She said I did not want to be responsible. Spoke on about me being ungrateful too. After our conversation I became depressed, I lost appetite & could not concentrate at work...

My guys at the office noticed and apparently, I wasn’t the only one going through this version of hell. Ade from finance was basically the man of his house, even with his dad being alive. Chinyere catered for his widowed sister, her kids and his mom...

A few things were clear sha; we love our family but we just want to enjoy the money we earn, make more of it and as it takes money to make more money, we need fewer responsibilities so we could save and also invest.
But how can I do this? I'm STRESSED!"

What should he do?