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I am newly-obsessed with social playfulness.
In my teens and twenties, I learned to play with ideas in my own head, but did not recognize that playing with people (not just ideas) is a distinct skill which unlocks substantial rewards.
In my teens and twenties, I learned to play with ideas in my own head, but did not recognize that playing with people (not just ideas) is a distinct skill which unlocks substantial rewards.
I'd developed some unique skills & attributes which led to my inclusion in interesting social groups -- but in hindsight, this made me more necessary than desirable
If I could send a tweet back in time to teenage me, I'd say:
If I could send a tweet back in time to teenage me, I'd say:
No matter what thoughtlet you seek to convey, you have *huge* opportunity to control how much your presentation invites listeners to feel good about the interaction & themselves.
Learn to exert this control b/c their response will be far more interesting if they feel good vibes
Learn to exert this control b/c their response will be far more interesting if they feel good vibes
Since I can't send this message to teenage me, I content myself with exploring this aspect of existence in my thirties -- which is why I'm here on Twitter to play with you. 
Incidentally, this is usually why I delete tweets: A minute or two after posting, I realize that I fell far short of conveying an idea in a way that invites good vibes.
I have much to learn, and it all feels quite tricky -- but I think this is a good place to practice & improve
I have much to learn, and it all feels quite tricky -- but I think this is a good place to practice & improve
