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Love your Mother. Jab Maa marti hain na boss, toh saath main sara bachpan bhi mar jata hain..
To every child who has lost a mother at young age from a child who lost his mom when he was 5.
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To every child who has lost a mother at young age from a child who lost his mom when he was 5.
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You know you are the most deserving child because no one better can understand the importance of having a mother in life.
Please be strong, as even from the sky your mother will not like to see her child in any sort of pain. I hope and strongly believe that there may be many good people around you to give you best of care; maybe not as good as your mother gave.
I know you will be able to cope up as that may be the only thing you can do or is expected from you right now.
If you believe that you are the most unfortunate child in this world, then the answer is no, you are the bravest child in this world as God needs your Mom more than you, imagine God taking help of your Mom for his work. So who is stronger, you or GOD?
Next question which may be arising in your mind “Why me?” Well perhaps you may be the chosen one. God has made you strong so that everyone around you can see your strength, imagine how proud your mother will be feeling watching you from the sky.
So what she is not with you physically, her glory and kindness will remain with you forever and it will keep making you more humble and dependent.
Now roles have changed, please try to share the same with your father. Trust me, he will be equally happy to receive your phone call, even if he is busy in some meeting or working hard in the office.
You can also share the same with your grandparents, they equally love you and also try sharing it with your siblings, they may have some equally interesting stories to share with you.
Try opening up and speak your heart, some times sharing little wonderful stories, good or bad helps you to feel happy & now whenever u are going to see any other child like u, u will easily be able to understand their trauma & u will be able to express your empathy towards them.
Try to remember the happy times you spent with your mother. I know right now you are too little to bear this but now you will become little more responsible and if you see your sibling going through the blues, please try knowing about their feelings and listen compassionately.
Though it will take some time but a few minutes of talking to them and listening to their feelings will make them feel better.
I feel my dad is depressed, what should I do? Give him a tight hug immediately. Well he may be showing you the brave face, but he is equally upset as you are. He knows that his child would never like to see his dad crying. As he makes you comfortable, you too try doing so.
Do you still remember the poem he used to ask you to recite in front of guests at home? This is the best time to recite the same to him. Dads are superheroes, and they are always around to protect you.
What do I do when I miss mom too much? Remember the good teachings your mother gave to u, the healthy and tasty food she used to make, her scolding on your naughtiness, her repetition of same things again & again which still makes u smile & her bed times story telling every night
Well there may be so many wonderfully positive stories of her, which will make you go through rough phases of life. Remember nothing in this world can replace her unconditional love for you.
She will always remain a role model her children and her values and beliefs will act as a pillar of strength for the rest of your life.
Losing mom at a very young age is a real loss, which nobody can compensate for but such children, who have been through such situations, are more mature and turn out to be more responsible and sensitive towards their families and the society.
Maa nahee hain toh kya? Yeh bhai toh hain, hug ke liye kabhi bhi aa jana. With love. R
