TBH, wapakels ako sa kapitbahay (though nasasaktan padin ako sa ginagawa nila).

Pero at this point, mas natatakot na ako sa A'TIN. Why? Fighting fire with fire is becoming the norm. We have double standards now.

Keep reading.++

(magta-tags ba ako???)

First off. It's been established na may galit sila sa boys at sa fandom. No use regurgitating this fact. Di na natin mababago iyon. And trying to control other people's bullshit is the same thing as choking yourself and expecting them to die.++

"Pero nasasaktan ako for the boys!"
"Pero unfair yung sinasabi nila!"
"Pero below the belt yun!"

Well, did you really think they would say it nicely kung gusto nilang massert na may relevance parin sila dito? Of course, not. And they'll say worse things from here on.++

Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not invalidating your feelings. What I'm trying to do is to make you see that by showing you care about what they think, they're taking up space in your head without paying rent. And who needs freeloaders, am I right?++

You want them to stop? I've got news for you, honey. They won't. Because they will do what it takes to rattle you; they find pleasure in seeing that whatever they say affects you. In the end, it's their win and your loss.++

Now back to what I was saying about norms and double standards. From what I can see, here are our norms:

-Pag may sinabing mali against sa boys, they're being rude. But when we say something bad about them, we're being... just?
-Pag may issue sa labas, dadalhin sa++

++teritoryo natin para kuyugin at okay lang yun. Pero pag may miyembro tayong nagkakalat sa labas at kinuyog... aba'y mali sila??
-(kaw na magdagdag tamad ako)

Can you see what I'm talking about? Reflect on it naman, please.++

By fighting fire with fire, we are consumed. By trying to resist the poison, we become poison ourselves. Ang hirap kasi sa atin, we are so reactive. Yes, we love the boys. But will you attack everyone who has something negative to say about them?++

If this continues, this will be our downfall. Because this is still PRIDE. Not the bareta, but the first deadly sin. Let that sink in.

Kung di ka agree sakin, aw. Agree to disagree tayo. Di na ako magsasalita pa. Labyu, kaps. *kissy face emoji*++

If agree ka naman, I have just this one request: ignore. Don't retaliate. Pag-usapan niyo sa GDM, pero dapat may kausap kayong kalmado at emotionally detached para hindi tayo magtanim ng sama ng loob. At the end of the day, this fandom is about SB19xATIN. Not about those++

++who left but still cannot let go. Chour. Parang kayo lang ng ex mo, kitams?

It's a harder job for us, pero we gotta be the more mature (kuno) people here. Because we certainly can't expect that same courtesy from others (unfortunately).++

If you've gotten this far, congratulations. Pero ang tanong ko lang talaga, nagdinner ka na ba?

Nakaboto ka na sa MYX?

Nakaboto ka na sa RAWR?

Yan yung mga laban na worth it, mare. Wag ka mag-aksaya ng panahon sa mga walang kwenta. Less stress.++

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk. Now, boto ka na:

https://myx.abs-cbn.com 

https://www.lionheartv.net/rawrawards2020/ 

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