Black men on this app stay complaining that they are not valued if they do t have money. The truth is patriarchy and concepts like submission create that situation. Men need to know that patriarchy also has a negative side and unfortunately that’s that

2. Already in African marriages men think being told to do chores is emasculating, many men don’t even want to look after their own kids in non financial ways. I often here men saying today I’m baby sitting cause the mum went to a funeral and there was no one

3. Else to watch the kids. I wonder why men call it baby sitting when it’s really just taking care of the kids. A woman will miss her hair appointment because kids have no one to stay with meanwhile the father is galavanting drinking at the local shops

4. They would rather do that then look after their own flesh and blood. Kids even carry their fathers names anyway. The in laws also really think women are made of steel and overwork them every chance they get. Clearly there’s never equal respect in these relationships

5. Men can cheat its normal, men can go out and come back at 4 am, wakeup at 1pm , won’t even attempt to do the bed because the one who does inferior chores is there etc. So if women don’t benefit financially what’s the point of them being in such institutions

6. In euro zones where equality is a thing women don’t mind looking after men or even funding a man s business. But as for us being a submissive provider is not the deal. Better he brings money cause if not that his not gonna bring anything else but the D..